Archive | On The Mend with Moya

This isn’t just thoughtfulness

Mar 31, 2026

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3 min read

This isn’t just thoughtfulness

There’s a line. Most of us missed it.

I could hear myself thinking in my sleep

Mar 24, 2026

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5 min read

I could hear myself thinking in my sleep

My daughter noticed it before I did.

Why do I have to tell you?

Mar 17, 2026

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4 min read

Why do I have to tell you?

This is where the resentment starts

The night I didn’t clean the kitchen

Mar 10, 2026

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7 min read

The night I didn’t clean the kitchen

What one messy kitchen taught me about overfunctioning.

Overfunctioning and High-Functioning Anxiety: Why Some Women Feel They Have to Earn Love

Mar 3, 2026

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6 min read

Overfunctioning and High-Functioning Anxiety: Why Some Women Feel They Have to Earn Love

She thought she was being strong. She was actually trying to be chosen.